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Q. I am three months behind on my period. This isn't anything unusual for me, once I was six months behind. My stomach is getting bigger and I don't know if I'm pregnant because I naturally eat a lot anyway, and I have to eat even more now that I'm in a band. (we work our asses off mind you, so I have to eat in order to not fall out in the hot sun) I had a physical/check-up last month and my pregnancy test came back negative. Yet, I am still confused. I haven't had morning sickness or any other symptoms. What's wrong with me?

A. You have said that it is not unusual for you to be this late and have no other signs of pregnancy. You are very active (work your ass off) and some athletes find they have irregular periods because of their increased activity.

Debi Fatherree, RN, has been in nursing for 10 years. All of it has been with a childbirth focus. She has worked postpartum, nursery, NICU and have cross trained some in Labor and Delivery. She started a infant home visit and prenatal educational program in her rural home town and was nominated for Maternal Child nurse of the Year in 1995. She and her husband were transferred with his company 1 1/2 years ago and she started teaching chidlbirth classes and doing breastfeeding classes and consults. She also works as a doula and has her own business, StorkHelp. Debi is mom to three wonderful children - Katie, age 8, Hannah, age 6 and Bobby, age3 (my spit fire.) She and her husband have been married thirteen years, a great accomplishment these days. She currently teaches in the hospital setting and privately through StorkHelp.

Debi will answer your questions on fertility, pregnancy, birth, breastfeeding and babies. Her advice does not take the place of your practitioner. Personal answers will not always be possible.